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The world feels heavy—and staying informed can feel like its own form of harm. If you’ve ever scrolled the headlines only to spiral into panic, helplessness, or shutdown, you’re not alone.
In this episode, Amanda unpacks the real physiological toll of media overload, explains how modern news is designed to trigger your survival system, and shares a nervous system-informed approach to consuming information with more intention, compassion, and regulation.
As mentioned in the episode, websites to find local ways to serve:
Modern news doesn’t just inform—it activates, on purpose. Amanda breaks down how today’s 24/7 media cycle exploits your attention by triggering your brain’s threat response system. Think: catastrophizing headlines, crisis loops, and emotionally charged narratives.
Your nervous system can’t tell the difference between a real, local threat and a global headline. Without a clear outlet for action or repair, this creates a cycle of chronic dysregulation—especially for folks already navigating anxiety or depression.
Modern media doesn’t profit from subscriptions—it profits from your panic. The more activated you are, the longer you scroll. This isn’t a conspiracy, it’s behavioral psychology.
Amanda contrasts traditional journalism (information-first) with today’s media model (emotion-first) and explains how this shift has physiological consequences for your mental health.
Amanda shares a practical framework: only consume the amount of news that’s proportionate to your capacity or ability to take meaningful action. This lens helps reorient media consumption as a values-aligned choice—not a compulsive spiral.
She walks through what meaningful action might look like (from voting to volunteering to community connection) and why dysregulation doesn’t make you a better ally, advocate, or citizen—it makes you less effective and more reactive.
Inside the Regulated Living Membership, members explore how to stay grounded while engaging with the world in ways that match their values, not just their fear.
Personal regulation isn’t selfish—it’s foundational. Amanda offers examples from her own life (and her sisters!) to illustrate how different people with different causes, skills, and capacities can contribute meaningfully without falling apart.
From baking cakes for foster kids to refugee resettlement support to simply picking up trash on a walk—these acts matter. They reconnect you to agency and reinforce the belief: “I’m not powerless.”
Amanda also suggests tangible habits:
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Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.
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